Male and female frustrations with dating
That can be taxing after a while.” Borich wishes he could cut back on the number of women he sees per week.
“I sometimes hate dating in NYC because it’s like a job interview.
Women who prefer to date from a much older pool get unfairly lumped with the young women that like older men simply for their money. Sure, there’s a strategic advantage for women who snag an older gent —older men have had more time to accumulate resources and stability than his younger counterparts, which make them a more viable partner for a long-term relationship.
You are pretty much guaranteed a secure and comfortable life but that’s not all.
“Men have to be the one to pick the place and create a fun dynamic of getting her excited and feeling comfortable.
Ever since Michael Garofola, 36, moved to New York in October, his calendar has been packed with different women penciled in for dinner or drinks.
As a former “Bachelorette” contestant, Garofola knows he has no problem scoring with women — he goes on up to five first dates a week, which he says usually include a drink or two and nothing beyond a goodnight smooch on the cheek.
ALSO READ: Ladies, if he is keeping you from his boys “haujatosha mboga” I prefer dating older men — I’m talking a decade or more, like a Nigerian model who recently married a governor who is three decades her senior. For your information, absent dads do not always breed girls with a penchant for older men. Any girl can be a little slutty; it has nothing to do with their daddy. Nowadays, everybody and their mother seem to have a strong opinion about young women dating older men.
Dating an older man has a bad stigma attached to it. A lot of people find it immoral even when they don’t know the motivation behind the relationship.
[The women] always ask me what I do for a living, if I wanna get married and leave the city, and it’s so exhausting.” But while some dudes lament their confirmed player status, Notas says there’s actually value in being a womanizer.